The Invisibility Project

We are a 501 (c)(3) non-profit organization that utilizes creative expression to generate social visibility into the grieving processes of bereaved parents.

About Us

Losing a child is one of the most devastating experiences a parent can endure. It is a grief that is indescribable, consuming, and everlasting. The pain of losing a child is unlike any other, as it shatters the natural order of life, where parents are expected to outlive their children. The heartache and sorrow that follows such a loss are overwhelming, leaving parents in a constant state of grief. We lost our only daughter, Amanda Jane Witherell, on April 8, 2021.

The grief a parent experiences over losing a child is all-encompassing. It seeps into every aspect of their lives, affecting their physical, emotional, and mental well-being. The pain is so intense that it feels as if a part of them has been ripped away, leaving an emptiness that can never be filled. Every day becomes a struggle to find meaning and purpose in life without the presence of their beloved child.

Parents often experience a rollercoaster of emotions, ranging from profound sadness and despair to anger, guilt, and even disbelief. They may question themselves, wondering if they could have done anything differently to prevent their child’s death. This self-blame can be incredibly destructive, as it adds an additional layer of guilt to their already overwhelming grief.

The grief over losing a child is not something that can be easily overcome. It is a lifelong process that requires immense strength, resilience, and support. Parents may find solace in connecting with others who have experienced a similar loss, as they can understand the unique pain and offer comfort and empathy. Therapy and counseling can also be beneficial, providing a safe space for parents to express their feelings and navigate through their grief.

As time passes, grief may evolve, but it never truly goes away. Parents may learn to live with their loss, but they will always carry the memory of their child in their hearts. Special occasions, such as birthdays or holidays, can trigger intense waves of grief, as parents are reminded of the absence of their child.

The grief over losing a child is a lifelong journey of learning to live with the unimaginable. It is a pain that no parent should ever have to endure, yet sadly, many do. It is a grief that forever changes a parent, leaving an indelible mark on their soul.